Not every man you’ll meet is Mr. Right, you’ll meet some Mr. Wrong’s along the way. Does this sound familiar?
The Married Man
Is an explanation needed? He’s merely married for his kids and it doesn’t matter if his wife understands him or not. He’s never going to be there when you need him the most: and if he ever gets divorced, he won’t consider getting married to you.
And if you meet a guy who claims that he is single, who doesn’t give you his number, neither would he take you out on a date nor to his friends, then he just might be married.
The “Divorced But Not Quite” man
Though divorced, he’s definitely married to the past. The legalities have taken place, he lives away from her. Unfortunately, he is still emotionally tied to his ex.
He’s got a broken heart, a mind that desires to know about the man his ex might currently be dating and a guilt that won’t quite about the children and how they’re affected by the turmoil. This guy isn’t ready for a new woman in his life, you may date, and he may have enthusiasm, but his ex will be there too, flooding your time with memories he refuses to put to rest. If she calls, he will run to her side. Hopefully you wouldn’t need him at the same time. Your best bet for the man who loves his ex-wife is to be his best friend but search elsewhere for a man to call your own.
The Midlife Man
The midlife man is as clueless about himself as he is about his life. He may have had a wife, family and all the riches a short while ago. However, one fine day he probably realized that he was getting older and had barely accomplished anything worthwhile. Moreover, he hated the fact that he had gray hair and needed glasses to see anything closer than arm’s length away from his face. Other men realize that life, indeed, is passing in front of them and they also realize that having a life partner who doesn’t share their interests and future goals is robbing them of the joy in their lives. This is a nice way of saying that they’ve grown apart and he recognizes the fact and is ready to move on to the next phase of his life with or without someone with whom to share it. An admirable ambition, but make sure that you don’t get chewed up in his search to find someone who understands him. After all, how would you understand him when he doesn’t understand himself?
The Won’t Commit Man
So… it seems that he is absolutely perfect. Or is he?
This man has it all – beautiful home, good manners, he’s physically fit and financially sound. If he’s in his 20’s, don’t let him get away. If he’s in his 30’s, reconsidering your feelings for him wouldn’t be a bad idea. If he’s in his 40’s, or beyond, don’t even bother to move your clothes into his closet. He likes things just the way they are; thank you. the man who wouldn’t commit doesn’t want to share his home with a woman, not even you. he is happy with his pictures on his walls and his clothes all over his room. The thought of a woman rearranging his furniture in his home makes him cringe. And children?! No way. Unlike the divorced man, there’s no hope with the man who won’t commit as he is reluctant to try the first time. How to recognize him? Well… he’s the main who doesn’t like changing himself and his routine, he’s only slightly tolerant to children and of course, he doesn’t’ make commitments in a relationship.
The “Who Could Care Less” man
If you are more interested in being with him, than he is with you, tell him bye – bye. This isn’t about the normal, average guy who hides his emotions because he doesn’t want to appear to b a “sissy”. This is about the man who make you have doubts about your own attractiveness to the opposite sex., the man who doesn’t try to kiss you, the man who shies away from what would be considered “normal” romantic responses. He doesn’t need an excuse and you don’t need a reason, but if you’re looking at him with thoughts of a romantic future, better look elsewhere.
The “Mom Warned You About” man
He’s smooth and urbane and says all the right things. There’s no way you can’t help falling in love with this man and find a reason to run back to him all the time. However, he punches you black and blue when you make him mad. He demands an hourly accounting of your time away from him but its better that you don’t anger him by asking where he’s been the last night. He stays out all night “talking” to a buddy and accuses you of cheating when you’re gone. He works when and if he feels like it, but is quick to quell any thoughts you might have about working a few hours away from home. Of course he’ll beg your forgiveness when you get enough of the craziness and tell him that he’s history. He’s counting on you being hooked enough to want it to be true. So keep your eyes and ears wide open
The “Without A Home” man
You met him somewhere, but forgot where. Moreover, he’s happy with you taking the lead in the relationship, providing him with the comfort of a place to stay, meals on a table and a warm bed. But is that what you intended? He’s like a stray dog that shows up at your doorstep hungry and tired, and is grateful for any solace that you are willing to provide. He never has any money. He may have friends, but you’ve never met them, and he would rather stay at home that go out. Is it because he loves your company so much or is it that he doesn’t want to be seen with you?
The Man Of Your Dreams
The man of your dreams wants to express to you that the sole purpose of his life is to make you happy. He wants you to know that he is different from all the other men you know. Now would you ever let go of a man as sweet as him? Of course not as all your dreams would go with him too. Unfortunately, the dreams are simply illusions of keeping you. nevertheless, while you are still looking for the right man, the man of your dreams should stay right there with you to accompany you through the bumpy journey of your life, side by side… but not hand in hand.
Prince Charming
Prince charming or the “knight in shinning armor” man is one who can’t turn away from the calls of a damsel in distress, and when it’s you who’s being rescued, you cant’ help being oh so grateful that he came along. But honey, don’t get you hopes too high on this one staying too long in your castle. He’s ever alert to the sounds of damsels in distress and his trusty steed is ever ready to rush to the next rescue, even if it means dumping the last princess from the saddle to make space for the next.
Mr. Right
Nevertheless, there is still a ray of hope to find Mr. Right. The world is a big place and is full of men who would prove to be wonderful companions and lovers in search of someone like themselves. They’re reluctant to open their hearts, but even more reluctant not to, afraid that they will find the one woman they didn’t trust enough will end up being the one woman they could have trusted with everything. They are out there somewhere…
